1) My small weasel cat is quite thin, which is one of the characteristics that makes her weaselly. Sometimes when she flops down on the carpet in a certain position, her rib cage sticks up visibly through her fur. I know this is her rib cage, but I’ve never gotten over an irrational fear that it’s actually a huge tumor. Whenever I see it, I get down on the floor with her and sort of feel around to see if she has a pain. She usually purrs and gives me a look as though to ask me why I am so strange. If she does indeed have a tumor, she has now lived successfully with it for six years. I remain unconvinced, however.
2) Recently I received the BBC series “I, Claudius” from Netflix. Anyone familiar with the series, or with the manner in which Latin words are engraved on stone or rendered in tile, will know that the “u” ends up being rendered as a “v”, so in this case it looks like this: “I, CLAVDIVS.” I noticed that on the DVD sleeve, the title was printed thusly: “I, Claudius” aka “I, CLAVDIVS.” This really made me wonder whether someone thought that Claudius is alternately referred to as Clavdivs. It was just so strange. I mean, nobody calls the series “I, Clavdivs.” OK, well, sometimes I do, but just to be funny. Yet I am sure that the DVD sleeve was not printed solely for my benefit.
3) Last night I had a most horrible sleeping experience. I went to bed with what can only be described as a fucking awful sinus headache; the kind that makes me think my teeth are all going to fall out from the unholy amount of pressure, and which convinces me that some invisible villain is driving an iron spike between my eyes. I took enough ibuprofen to wear a hole through a cement wall, and was then so ardently desirous of unconsciousness that I took a handful of Dramamine, which reliably sends me into a coma, except for the times when it doesn’t, of which last night was one. I had to get up fairly early this morning to go see my therapist, and I didn’t want to go on no sleep with an iron spike through my head, my teeth falling out, and a hole in my stomach.
But I also didn’t want to call to cancel my appointment, because I was afraid she would think I was malingering, since I had to cancel twice last month due to not being able to talk from the endless cold I had. I mean, I really couldn’t speak, but we had an uncomfortable discussion about whether my brain was sandbagging my body to keep me out of therapy. I was like, you know, sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. But anyway, I didn’t want to cancel yet again, but I hated the thought of sitting in her office incoherent from pain and lack of sleep. So I lay there and watched the clock. Midnight. One. Two. Three. Oh, hell. Hell, damn it, damn it all to hell. The Dramamine kicked in sometime after three, and then I had the worst dream ever, all about trying to get to my therapy appointment.
I was out in the middle of nowhere at a specialty shop with my mother, where we were looking at engraved stationery and afternoon tea paraphernalia. Suddenly I realized I had to go, or I’d be late. My car wouldn’t start. I rushed back into the shop, and asked the shop owner if I could borrow her car. For some unknown reason, she agreed. I grabbed her keys. Her car was actually a giant behemoth thing that I needed a ladder to get into, and which I wasn’t sure I could drive. I got out of the driveway successfully, but the internal configuration of the car kept shifting … at one point the steering wheel was down on the floor; then the gas and brake pedal were up on the dashboard; then the seat squashed itself so that my knees were under my chin; then the dashboard became liquid and I kept losing things in it, such as my sunglasses. The whole time, all I could think of in this dream was that I had to get to the appointment on time. At one point during the dream, I got lost, and stopped someone on the street to show me where we were, which he did by displaying a Google Earth photo on his iPhone. This was completely useless, and I was disgusted with him.
I woke up in a heart-palpitating panic, with the sheets in a sweaty twisted mess and my cats much offended at what had apparently been my nightmare-tormented restlessness, but I was so relieved to be out of that dream world, and so happy at the thought of driving a car with a stationary steering wheel and a solid dashboard, and so happy to know where I was going without having to waste time with some asshat’s overpriced technogadget, that I happily went to therapy despite the hole in my stomach and the spike through my head and my teeth falling out. I didn’t make a lot of sense once I got there, but that’s nothing new.
December 5, 2008 at 3:32 pm |
My cats solve this problem by temporarily dissolving their bones when they’re recumbent. Then they just resolidify them when they want to walk.
December 5, 2008 at 5:23 pm |
1)Hubby is forever poking and prodding our animals and asking do I feel the weird bump, swelling, or lump. Yet, I am always the one who finds ticks, bumps, bruises…
2)Maybe they thought it looked more like Old English that way?
3)I hate dreams like that!
Hope you’re feeling better.
I plan to be a wreck, at work today, due to a lack of sleep, but I stayed up doing laundry.
December 5, 2008 at 5:35 pm |
I used to have the teeth falling out dream — when I finally realized they were connected with sinus, they stopped. I find google earth very close to pointless.
In a not-quite-on-topic aside, I saw someone blogging about a rumor there’s going to be a 99 dollar 4GB iphone made to sell at walmarts. Ha.
December 5, 2008 at 5:48 pm |
1. My cat was very weasle-y until Mr. D started feeding him. Now he has a beer gut, and it’s very unattractive on a small, thin cat.
2. I think some people don’t know what the “v” means, so they decided to put some sort of translation.
3. I hope your sinus condition is better. And your dreams.
December 5, 2008 at 5:54 pm |
Pan — Yeah, I think I’d rather keep her thin and weaselly, even if she does have a ribcage tumor. Funny little thing.
LFC — I will totally not buy one of those phones. I’ve never actually dreamed about my teeth falling out … I literally felt like they were falling out, because there was so much pressure in my head. That reminds me that I’m overdue for a visit to the dentist to have a couple of fillings … I think that’s why my teeth felt so unruly during this recent crisis; they’re already compromised and I’m rudely ignoring them.
Shawn — Next time, I should really get up and do something useful rather than staring at the clock. It’s such a frustrating waste of time. *sigh*
Steph — That was hilarious.
December 5, 2008 at 8:56 pm |
David, I may have missed where you said you went to the doctor. I hope you go if you keep suffering so much. There’s no need to suffer so, and especially with your head. That’s just awful suffering!
This may be of limited help, but I think I posted it last year somewhere on my blog: a sinus tea that a local physician gave me when I was suffering as you’ve been.
She said to make a cup of tea, any kind of tea. Get a fresh ginger root and slice a sliver or two off of it. Put the ginger into a cup with a tea bag, and steep the two together. After five minutes, add a lot of honey and some lemon.
This was actually very good and helped a great deal, not to mention being comforting to boot.
December 5, 2008 at 8:56 pm |
P.S. Palpating the weasel sounds kinda dirty. When I saw the title I just went O.
December 5, 2008 at 10:35 pm |
Eve –
1) I will thank you to keep your mind out of the gutter, madam. We are very proper here. We would never invoke some little-known colloquialism for acts better performed alone in the privacy of one’s bathroom. *disdainful sniff, or at least as close to one as I can manage to coax out of a tidal river of sinus drainage*
2) Thanks for the tea suggestion — I keep meaning to try that; even if it didn’t help, it would be, as you say, a comfort. Twenty-three years’ worth of doctors have not been able to determine the cause of my chronic sinus malfunction, but I am delighted that over the past year, it’s retreated from completely debilitating on a daily basis to completely debilitating on an occasional basis, and merely trying on a daily basis.
December 5, 2008 at 10:54 pm |
Perhaps we should consider having the therapist read your blog. Perhaps.
December 6, 2008 at 5:13 am |
Any blog post including all the terms “palpate the weasel” (which I also initially took the “wrong” way), “asshat”, and “I, Clavdivs” quite possibly might be my favorite post ever.
I used to have dreams like that when I was a kid, that I had to drive a car that suddenly changed into a car/bicycle hybrid, or the brakes stopped working and I had to pull a Fred Flintstone maneuver, or what have you.
The last time I had a “fucking awful sinus headache”, I took lots of ibuprofen, but also put a hot water bottle on my face. It helped, a bit. I hope you’re feeling better now.
December 6, 2008 at 5:21 am |
Yeah, whenever I get a sinus infection I always end up at the dentist thinking my teeth are all just about to fall out. He sighs and saids, I can’t do a thing until the infection clears up. He prescribes antibotics and then everything gets better and I forget all about the dentist.
I didn’t know there was an I Claudius series! I’ve read the book. Ooh I’m going to have to add it to my Christmas list.
I’m sorry all that rolling around and the messy, sweaty sheets were a result of a nightmare and not because you found an extremely desirable “concert goer.”
I hope you are feeling better.
December 6, 2008 at 5:36 am |
I love the way cats can move their bodies and contort. On the floor, on back with all four paws up is my favorite position to see.
I recently read that Hollywood wants to do a movie version of “I Claudius”. I cannot help but wonder if Derek Jacobi and Brian Blessed will be in it .
That TV show was responsible for me being a history minor. I still have the video tapes I taped a few years back off a PBS fundraiser with Alistair Cooke. Priceless.
December 6, 2008 at 6:37 am |
Susan — Is Brian Blessed even still alive? I did love him as Augustus … but not as much as I loved John Hurt as Caligula. What an amazing tour de force performance. Not to mention the very young (and, even to my heterosexual eye, gorgeous) Patrick Stewart.
Alida — Yes, the series is excellent, and does a fine, fine job of capturing how incredibly funny the book is, in its Gravesian deadpan way.
I too would have much preferred a different reason for the wreckage of my bed, but alas, I am entering my sixteenth month of celibacy. *sigh*
Heni — Why, thank you. I hope someday to surpass even this peerless collection of terms all in one post, though I admit, it will take some doing.
I’ve had weird dreams about driving cars ever since I was a kid … it’s my own personal unconscious symbol of my life. I dreamed so often about crashing in terrible wrecks that I was terrified to learn to drive, and didn’t get behind the wheel of a car until I was in my middle twenties.
Spectrum — I don’t pay the poor woman enough to suffer through this nonsense.
December 6, 2008 at 9:22 am |
David, Brian Blessed is still alive, last I heard, but I haven’t gone to IMDB to confirm.I also loved him in “:Blackadder”. You are right about John Hurt- I understand the DVD’s and VHS tapes had scenes with him that were cut for the American audiences.
I forgot about Patrick Stewart. Yeah, he is gorgeous- an he has hair!
The woman on the series he was bedding- Claudius’ sister- she was in Rocky Horror…. Talk about going from one to another….And Hollywood wants to remake that as well. Don’t they have any original ideas there?
Sigh.
December 7, 2008 at 3:19 am |
David, I can absolutely vouch for hot ginger drink, even without lemon or honey. When I had massive sinus while we were in Canada year before last, and none of my usual remedies, we went to the grocery and got ginger? Fixed me right up. The downside is that I wound up drinking it in an addicted sort of a way for about a year.
December 7, 2008 at 6:12 am |
Be careful with ginger. People with certain conditions or who are taking certain medications or health supplements cannot have ginger. Consult a doctor (or the internet for a basic list). I love ginger’s energy inducing benefits but I cannot take it because of my diabetes. There are other conditions that rule out the use of ginger.
Are you better now? Sure hope so!
December 7, 2008 at 6:18 am |
Corina — Thanks for the advice; I know I have to be careful with things like ginger and cinnamon due to my friendly neighborhood ulcer. I remember that’s one of the reasons I don’t do the fresh ginger tea more often … I tried it on the recommendation of my acupuncturist, and wow, that was a little too much excitement.
LFC — If you have to be addicted to something, I’d say ginger tea is pretty benign.
December 8, 2008 at 1:53 am |
“I, Clavdivs”? *guffaws* that’s priceless.
I’ve never seen that series, but since you mention Brian Blessed and Patrick Stewart, I feel I may have to do so immediately.
Sorry to hear about the sinus headache and the awful dream. Cripes. I had to drive a friend’s hulking great 4×4 car round the city in Sydney yesterday with no idea where I was going and a muppet ‘reading’ the map beside me. Harrowing, and that was without a liquid dashboard…
December 8, 2008 at 2:34 am |
Truce — I really think you’d love the series. It’s very well done, and entertaining.
I’ve actually never driven one of those big 4×4s, and I would be terrified to try. Especially with a muppet navigator.
December 8, 2008 at 3:33 am |
What is it about those car dreams? I sometimes think it’s a metaphor for not feeling in proper control of or relation to one’s body — like, what is this piece of shit I’m driving? Or that I think I know what I’m doing, but I really don’t.
December 8, 2008 at 4:28 am |
That might be it, Heni. For me, vehicle dreams have always been symbolic of the current course — or perceived course — of my life. My guess with this one is that my continuing therapy is giving me the option of a much larger and more potentially externally complex life than I’ve had before, and I don’t know whether I can handle it, or even really figure out how to inhabit it. Moreover, it doesn’t even really belong to me … I had to get someone else’s keys.